A self-proclaimed dating expert said in order for a man to become attractive to women, he has to be a confident, ambitious person who has principles.

Carlos Xuma, who has spent more than 10 years teaching timid guys how to flirt with the ladies, has introduced three basic steps to becoming a desirable stud.

Xuma’s first advice to all the love-seeking loners is to have confidence.

In order to achieve this, one has to first go face-to-face with one’s fears. A man who is afraid to ask out a woman should grit his teeth and just go through with it. And he should keep at it until it becomes natural for him, even if he has to fake it at first.

“Confidence is a cycle that feeds on itself,” Xuma said. “The old adage ‘Nothing succeeds like success’ definitely applies here.”

The second step is to have ambition.

A man with purpose pulls in ladies like a magnet, according to Xuma, and the magnitude of ambition does not matter.

“It could be as simple and basic as creating a loving family,” said Xuma.

Finally an attractive man needs to have his own principles, and be able to stand his ground defending his beliefs.

“In other words, a man needs to stay strong in not taking any crap from other people,” said Xuma.

In addition, Xuma offers tips on dating techniques like how to text a girl, how to talk to girls, getting your girlfriend back, and so forth.



From news reports