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우선, 무례하지는 않으면서도 거리감 없이 친밀하게 대화를 시작하는 것이 중요하다.
1. 슈퍼마켓에서 “이런 사과 먹어본 적 있어요?”라고 말을 건네는 사람에게 적의를 품을 이는 없다. 마찬가지로 바에서 “예쁘게 생긴 술이네요. 어떤 거죠?”라고 질문해보라. 백이면 백 대답을 얻을 수 있을 거다.
2. 마음에 드는 사람이 보이면 긍정적인 신호를 보내라 – 눈을 마주친다거나, 미소를 짓는 것으로 호감을 표출하라. 긴장된다고 해서 무표정으로 일관하는 것은 무뚝뚝하거나 차가운 사람이라는 인상을 줄 수 있다.
3. 적극적으로 나서라. 최악의 경우엔 앞으로 보지 않을 사람과 짧은 대화를 나눈 것이 될 테고 그렇지 않다면 긴 인연의 시작이 될 수도 있다.
(khnews@heraldcorp.com)
